As you know, I’m a very private, reserved person (ha! yeah right!), however the answer to this question is a little too much to be putting out in public.
I actually tend not to hold a grudge that much – sure, people have annoyed me and caused me pain at times, but I move on, look at the positives and get on with life. Sometimes I’ll even interact with them OK later on, I guess I find it hard to dislike people.
Pretty much the only place I’ve really been hurt is in the romance department, rejection always sucks and never gets any easier.
But that’s part of life I guess – in the last year I’ve gotten a lot more confident and better at reading people and emotions, so life is sort of going better in this area. :-)